{"id":1777,"date":"2008-10-15T06:46:37","date_gmt":"2008-10-15T14:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shawnna.wordpress.com\/?p=551"},"modified":"2008-10-15T06:46:37","modified_gmt":"2008-10-15T14:46:37","slug":"lesson-relearned-actions-speak-louder-than-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=1777","title":{"rendered":"Lesson relearned &#8211; actions speak louder than words"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve relearned this one&#8230;&#8230;  for the umpteenth time.  What people say &#8211; or write on a website &#8211; is usually how they want others to see them (or how they want to see themselves).  And yes &#8211; this applies to me too.<\/p>\n<p>More on that in a separate post.<\/p>\n<p>If in the course of events their actions reflect someone quite different, run as fast as you can the other way.<\/p>\n<p>I just ran&#8230;..   again&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>There was a time when I would try and help this individual see the obvious disconnect between their actions and their written word but I&#8217;ve also learned that beating my head against a wall actually hurts.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/shawnna.files.wordpress.com\/2007\/10\/banghead.gif\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/shawnna.files.wordpress.com\/2007\/10\/banghead.gif?resize=25%2C20\" alt=\"\" title=\"banghead\" width=\"25\" height=\"20\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-370\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve relearned this one&#8230;&#8230; for the umpteenth time. What people say &#8211; or write on a website &#8211; is usually how they want others to see them (or how they want to see themselves). And yes &#8211; this applies to <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=1777\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1777\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}