{"id":208,"date":"2007-07-23T21:01:41","date_gmt":"2007-07-24T05:01:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shawnna.wordpress.com\/2007\/07\/23\/how-hard-should-one-try\/"},"modified":"2007-07-23T21:01:41","modified_gmt":"2007-07-24T05:01:41","slug":"how-hard-should-one-try","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=208","title":{"rendered":"How hard should one try?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After reading my recent blog honoring my son&#8217;s birthday &#8211; he sent me a very heartfelt email. He actually shared with me a very personal situation he&#8217;s going through and wanted my insight.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll recall that we were always pretty close.<\/p>\n<p>Without divulging anything too personal, suffice it to say it was all about the challenge he&#8217;s having with someone who truly is not emotionally available.\u00a0\u00a0 Naturally, I had some very sage advice for him.\u00a0 Perhaps I should take my own advice right now.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to engage someone who is so out of touch with their own feelings &#8211; especially when they have so much they are dealing with emotionally &#8211; requires patience, understanding and compassion.\u00a0 But when that person is not very nice in response to my trying to reach out &#8211; it feels awful.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps I&#8217;m trying too hard and should just let it go.\u00a0  If he wants me in his life, he knows how to reach me.<\/p>\n<p>And yes &#8211; that&#8217;s about the same advise I gave my son.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After reading my recent blog honoring my son&#8217;s birthday &#8211; he sent me a very heartfelt email. He actually shared with me a very personal situation he&#8217;s going through and wanted my insight.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll recall that we were always pretty <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=208\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=208"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=208"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=208"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}