{"id":3443,"date":"2014-08-31T10:00:28","date_gmt":"2014-08-31T17:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=3443"},"modified":"2014-08-31T10:00:28","modified_gmt":"2014-08-31T17:00:28","slug":"death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=3443","title":{"rendered":"Death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I prepare to take my <a title=\"Regina Connolly Salvati \u2013 my sister\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=3197\" target=\"_blank\">sister&#8217;s cremated remains<\/a> to New York for interment near her son <a title=\"Vincent John Salvati \u2013 my nephew\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=2684\" target=\"_blank\">Vincent<\/a>, it hit me how our life ends compressed into 9 inch X 7 inch X 5 inch box.<\/p>\n<p>In my guest bedroom, I have items I brought home after clearing out my sister&#8217;s rental house.\u00a0 Her important papers, photos and jewelry she treasured, collectible things she got when our father died; those kinds of things we think we need to keep.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things I brought home is a huge, framed professional photo of her in her wedding dress.\u00a0 She was such a beautiful bride.\u00a0 She was always so photogenic too.<\/p>\n<p>Then I looked over at the box of her cremated remains and I had to sit down.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3445\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?resize=940%2C667&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014\" width=\"940\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?resize=1024%2C727&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?resize=422%2C300&amp;ssl=1 422w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?resize=900%2C639&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Regina-Wedding-Cremated8-31-2014.jpg?w=1766&amp;ssl=1 1766w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What does it mean to live a meaningful life?<\/p>\n<p>When this experience of mortality ends, how do I want to be remembered?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I prepare to take my sister&#8217;s cremated remains to New York for interment near her son Vincent, it hit me how our life ends compressed into 9 inch X 7 inch X 5 inch box. In my guest bedroom, <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=3443\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3443","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-personal-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3443","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3443"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3443\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3446,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3443\/revisions\/3446"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3443"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3443"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3443"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}