{"id":4318,"date":"2018-01-01T16:22:45","date_gmt":"2018-01-02T00:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=4318"},"modified":"2019-07-08T09:16:32","modified_gmt":"2019-07-08T16:16:32","slug":"i-failed-rhaegar-doing-what-is-right-by-him-2018","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=4318","title":{"rendered":"Our Alaskan Malamute, Rhaegar (aka (&#8220;Catoico&#8217;s New Found Adventure&#8221;).  2018"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It is with an incredibly heavy heart that we&#8217;ve decided to give Rhaegar back to his breeder. We&#8217;ve had some incidents of aggression such that I don&#8217;t feel I can trust him. I&#8217;ve loved him with all my heart since he was 8 weeks old, but I&#8217;ve failed him as a leader.<\/p>\n<p>The reality of all of this has taken it&#8217;s toll on me emotionally, and physically.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s going to fly to Wisconsin tomorrow with a friend of the breeder (who is also an Alaskan Malamute breeder) tomorrow. He&#8217;ll be staying with her for a few days and be evaluated for temperament.<\/p>\n<p>Then he&#8217;ll go to boot camp. Stacey (the breeder) feels very confident that she will be able to find a great home for him. He may even be a show dog someday. I feel blessed to have chosen such a wonderfully supportive breeder.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be following his progress, knowing that doing this is THE best thing we could do for him. As our trainer said, it&#8217;s just not a good mix given our sedentary lifestyle and his needs.<\/p>\n<p>I failed him.<\/p>\n<p>2018 is starting out to be a real challenging year.<\/p>\n<p><strong>UPDATE 4\/9\/2018<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though the breeder promised she&#8217;d keep us informed of his progress, she did not.  I sent her a few text messages asking how he was doing and the response was always the same, &#8216;still in rehab, making progress&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Until today.<\/p>\n<p>Last Saturday, I decided to do a google search of his AKC registration number.  What I learned put my heart at peace.  He was being shown and had actually earned some points!<\/p>\n<p>So today, I sent this text to his breeder &#8211; Stacey Moore of Midland, Texas.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?resize=872%2C595&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"872\" height=\"595\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4354\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?w=872&amp;ssl=1 872w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?resize=300%2C205&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?resize=768%2C524&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/4-9-2018-Text-to-Stacey-Moore.jpg?resize=440%2C300&amp;ssl=1 440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 872px) 100vw, 872px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And here is the subsequent, very hurtful exchange:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?resize=940%2C403&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"940\" height=\"403\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-4355\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?resize=1024%2C439&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?resize=300%2C129&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?resize=768%2C329&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?resize=500%2C214&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shawnna.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Stacey-Moore-Txt-Exchange-4-9-2018.jpg?w=1134&amp;ssl=1 1134w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is with an incredibly heavy heart that we&#8217;ve decided to give Rhaegar back to his breeder. We&#8217;ve had some incidents of aggression such that I don&#8217;t feel I can trust him. I&#8217;ve loved him with all my heart since <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/?p=4318\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[40,41,43,42],"class_list":["post-4318","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-personal-blog","tag-alaskan-malamute","tag-malamute","tag-professional-dog-breeders","tag-stacey-moore"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4318","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4318"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4318\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4567,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4318\/revisions\/4567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4318"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4318"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shawnna.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4318"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}